Building Stronger Leaders Through Positive Vibes
- Dreama Whitfield
- Feb 13
- 2 min read
How Collaboration, Support, and Positive Energy Can Transform Leadership

On a cold winter day, my friend Joy and I were casually flipping through the local newspaper when an article grabbed our attention—it was about the Knight Arts Challenge, a program designed to fund innovative ideas for artists. As we read more, we couldn’t help but think, this is exactly what we've been looking for. At that time, we were already collaborating on creative projects, and the energy between us felt electric. It seemed like the perfect moment to take a leap of faith and apply.
Without any second thoughts, we decided to submit our idea to the contest. With shared passion and a clear vision, we put our hearts into our application. To our surprise and excitement, we won! That victory became a turning point in our journey, reinforcing our belief that incredible vibes can happen when the right people come together with positive energy and a shared goal.
Good vibes don’t just happen. They are created through strong relationships, laughter, and support. When you have a solid circle of friends who feel like sisters and sisters who are true friends, life becomes richer, happier, and more fulfilling.
"When you focus on the good, the good gets better." – Unknown
Take my friendship with Joy, for example. We talk and text daily, sharing funny memes, and stories about our families, our dreams, and our business ventures. We uplift and encourage each other to keep moving forward, to accomplish more, and to celebrate every win big or small. This energy, this unwavering support, is what creates joy. And DM Whits Curator of Good Thoughts is all about spreading that joy to others.

Celebrating Together
Good food, great conversation, and deep connections these are the moments that fill our souls. Whether it’s birthdays, promotions, or personal victories, my circle, including Dr. Monnie, Joy, the other Monnie, Ce Ce, Kim, Sharon, and Lisa, always comes together to celebrate. These gatherings remind us that life's journey is best traveled with people who genuinely care about your success and well-being.
Self-Care as a Foundation for Leadership
Beyond laughter and celebrations, we prioritize self-care spa days, workouts, and drinking plenty of water to stay physically and mentally strong. We hold each other accountable because a strong mind and body fuel success. DM Whits Curator of Good Thoughts, wants to extend this mindset through leadership development workshops, teaching others how to build supportive networks and maintain mental well-being.
Empowering the Next Generation
The younger we teach these skills, the stronger our future leaders will be. That is why we guide youth in creating their own circles of support, developing leadership skills, and prioritizing self-care. A great leader isn’t just someone with knowledge and ambition. They are someone who knows how to stay mentally strong, uplift others, and build a thriving community.
At DM Whits Curator of Good Thoughts, we believe in amplifying voices, spreading joy, and empowering people to live full, happy lives. So, find your circle, celebrate often, and take care of yourself because when you thrive, the world around you does, too.
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